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practice what you preach…

practice what you preach…

I often find myself saying that one of our main flaws is to magnify the bad and overlook the good things. This is true in our everyday life. Thus we remember the day someone forgot to salt the food but forget all the other days when the food was right; we blame the...

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delphicMessage

delphicMessage

In a time when the city is ablaze with demolition and talk about illegal buildings and slum clusters, when courts have ordered no further 'regularisation,a board was erected in front of a slum community centre next to pwhy and inaugurated by all the local politicos.....

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babaa..day, badnasday or vday pwhy style

babaa..day, badnasday or vday pwhy style

Funny how the 'poor' emulate the 'rich' in everything.. so this morning S our creche worker who is a little simple minded carried a bunch of cellophane wrapped roses.. she entered the office and and mumbled 'happy bababaa day" and handed her roses to all present.....

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loos and woes — some answers

loos and woes — some answers

In my previous post I wrote about meals in loos.. there were some comments on this post and one that disturbed me. It said:...to me its quite OK ,i am sure there are many more schools in India which dont get anything to eat, let alone the ones stored in toilets...Yes...

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meals in loos – delhi school woes

meals in loos – delhi school woes

Many may have seen the evening news programme that showed a municipal school in Delhi where midday meals were stored in toilets and even classes were held in bathrooms.. a shocking revelation for sure.. but as I looked at the pictures of this resettlement colony...

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heartfix hotel…

heartfix hotel…

We could not save Chetna.. but someone up there seems to think that our heartFix venture is worthwhile.. and out of the blue landed Nandini from a remote village in Bihar. She is 9 and needs heart surgery to repair a hole in her heart..In spite of her exhausting...

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healing edicts

healing edicts

Yesterday, the Delhi High Court pronounced a jugement directing 70 up-market state-of-the-art private hospitals to provide free treatment to the poor by reserving 25% of their resources to people below the poverty line.. the court also directed these hospitals to...

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rubble rumbles

rubble rumbles

Last week bulldozers raised MG 1 or the mecca of the fashion industry in India's capital city and our page 3 went up in arms.. TV programmes, newspaper articles, impassioned debates abounded.. even divine intervention was sought as pujas and yagnas were held...Let me...

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when nanhe’s eyes are smiling…

when nanhe’s eyes are smiling…

It's back.. the smile that kept us going through many ordeals...it's back after five weeks in hospital wards, and operation theatres and more such places, and even if nanhe is a little tired and a little thinner, the smile is beaming and larger than ever..You guessed...

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hours after.. i sit and wonder

Hours after I sit and wonder at how exposed and vulnerable you feel when faced with the death of a child... a life taken away before it even begins..You try to find answers that would help comprehend.. you need those answers to carry on, even if you have to invent...

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marks..  slaps.. and a dickensian school

marks.. slaps.. and a dickensian school

You would all agree that terminal examinations are meant to assess performance and help improve the same. You will also agree that an exam has no relevance if marks are not given to the student... well not so in our city....In December all municipal schools held...

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Go in peace Chetna

Go in peace Chetna

Chetna November 2005 - 1 february 2006 Chetna left this world a few hours ago.. leaving us stunned.. everything had been set for her heart surgeryI was instantly drawn to this little pixie girl when I first met her a few days back in ward no 18 of Safdarjung hospital....

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chottey lal.. the larger than life toy man

chottey lal.. the larger than life toy man

When you think nothing can touch or move you, that your heart is safe and well guarded, beware: someone may have other plans for you. It happened to me this morning. This is how:What made me decide to go fetch K and mr P, I do not know.. what made me say 'yes' to...

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heartfix hotel

heartfix hotel

When Sitaram walked into our little office almost three years go, he had hobbled for six years on his good leg from the proverbial pillar to post seeking the funds required for his son Raju's operation. His determination and courage compelled us to act... Arun had to...

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another smile in custody…

another smile in custody…

There is another smile that lit planet why for the past 6 months, a smile that conveyed warmth, compassion and befitted the spirit of pwhy!Sophie came to us last summer and immediately became one of us.. so much so that we almost took her for granted.. not only did...

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the spunk of a smile

the spunk of a smile

For 28 days nanhe has kept his smile going.. through pain, humiliating investigations and now invasive surgery which has wreaked his exhausted body.. with tubes and drains hanging and the discomfort of bedsores, nanhe still smiles on..True his smile is a little slower...

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parttime couples

Was flipping through a upmarket magazine and came across an article entitled: weekend couples, highlighting what was defined as 'a new dynamisn in the intsitution of marriage with couples living in different cities'...Once again we were faced with the now jaded...

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branded… in free India

branded… in free India

Yesterday on the eve of R day, segregation in schools on the basis of performance was banned in Maharashtra.. strange that in a country where all children are deemed equal, such a practice existed for over half a century..A child was branded A or B or C... at an early...

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happy R day…

happy R day…

All year long we celebrate innumerable festivals.. many are religious... some social... we wish each other diwali and xmas, eid and pongal amd freindship day and mother's day... often not quite knowing what each of them signifies..Today is R Day.. often viewed as a...

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babli aur….

babli aur….

here is the latest picture of our very own babli from bed no 6, ward no 2... quite a star she is as she puts on a million dollar smile in spite of pain and a swollen eye! so little babli has a brand new heart... it took some effort that began when mr never say die...

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when words fail

when words fail

This picture was taken minutes before scared little braveBabli's angiography.Take a moment to look at it:You have Babli being tended to by Sophie with love and tenderness, while her father looks on probably wondering why all this fuss about a girl!Watching is Sitaram...

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investing in a tiny heart

investing in a tiny heart

Little Chetna is Nanhe's roomie.. she is two months old and has a hole in her heart that requires surgery.. the family is not rich and the mother bears the stigma of having lost her first daughter and produced another defective one.. everything seems to conspire...

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heart in place

heart in place

Babli has a new heart.. one that does not have holes.. one that will allow her to breathe easily, to run, to play, to eat all the thing she wants , to do all a kid her age should do, one that will enable her to sleep through the night without feeling breathless.. in...

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nanhe’s world

nanhe’s world

nanhe's operation is still uncertain.. and it is now his 20th day in the hospital.. but believe me ward no 18 is a happy place.. and almost a family ..there is puja who has a tumour in her abdomen, and vishal who has high fever, and vijay who suffers copper toxicity...

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because of your smile

because of your smile

Because of your smile.. you make life more beautiful... Thich Nhat HanhThis simple quote by a vietnamese monk sums up nanhe's mission on planet earth.. many of you have fallen in love with his smile and his incredible courage..I must confess there are some who have,...

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praying for a smile

praying for a smile

...and if at any time you feel like there is no hope, think of me sitting 10000 miles away not giving up on him! Also, if there is anything that needs to be done (absolutely anything!) and is stopped because of lack of funds, let me know immedietely.....I will raise...

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love me.. please love me..

love me.. please love me..

Gary handed me over a CD with pictures taken during Babli's angiography. Gary specialises in medical photography, and one would expected a series of 'scientific snapshots'. What enfolded as I saw the pictures was the poignant tale of a scared lonely child and the...

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braveBABLI

braveBABLI

Many of you have shared with us babli's tryst with life.. this little woman of substance is a true braveheart...Till now, for babli the 'surgery' had been something everyone talked about, something vague that the poor child had no way of imagining. She used to say...

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for the benefit of…

for the benefit of…

"I know that I can donate to the organization through the website, but I would prefer to sponsor one child's education completely" was what was written in a mail that dropped in my box this morning. It came from an Indian living abroad.I often get request like this...

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oh darling yeh hai dilli…

It was a sunny afternoon and some friends decided to take us to lunch at an 'upmarket' restaurant not far from pwhy HQ.. we were a motley crowd of six ladies and two lads ranging from age 54 to age 4.. some from France, some from planet why, and even our very own...

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oh darling yeh also hai india

oh darling yeh also hai india

Yesterday was eid.. some celebrated it, others enjoyed a holiday...certainly if they were government employees..Normally on holidays OPD halls in government hospitals lie empty and bare.. but not quite.. two young doctors decided otherwise in the cardio thoracic...

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oh darling yeh hai India

oh darling yeh hai India

Many of you have reacted with spontaneity to some of the human problems that I write about..and some of you have suggested solutions that seem plausible and humane.. these are the very solutions that used to come up to my mind when I began my work.. but most of them...

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baby it’s cold outside

baby it’s cold outside

Delhi woke up to its coldest day in 70 years.. it was 0.2 degree celsius.. later that day came an announcement: all primary schools would be closed for two days..Easy said, easy done... great idea, the kids can remain warm at home.. is what one would logically think...

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an invisible hero

an invisible hero

R in his lasted blog mentions a touching letter written by a father after the loss of his son in battle. In his trying to define what makes a true hero, this grieving father writes the following:But even more, being a hero comes from respecting your parents and all...

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the beat gos  on…

the beat gos on…

Babli and Nanhe will be operated upon next week... at project why life continues and the beat goes on..Little Manoj looks like a garden gnome.. he is almost two and cannot stand, his legs not bigger than two sticks.. his bright eyes dart around with intelligence as he...

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back with a bang..

back with a bang..

It is back... the smile that was lost for a while behind a wall of pain is back where it belongs, on nahe's beautiful face..Never mind the foot swollen to double its size because of innumerable intravenous feeds, never mind the now forgotten pain and discomfort of an...

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whyBlogs… shots of hope

whyBlogs… shots of hope

"I almost always start my day at work by reading the projectwhy blogspot" says a friend in the US." I was reading some earlier posts on your blog, as I do when I need inspiration".. says another one from the other side of the planet in AustraliaProject why blogs began...

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pwhy and beyond…

pwhy and beyond…

Nanhe is in hospital and in pain . I was given a garbled and incoherent report on his condition by those who accompanied him. What I could gather was that he would be in hospital for a long time and that the surgery would take place at a later date..Government...

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