ANOU’S BLOG
I am over the moon today
I am over the moon today! The reason? A smile that had got lost somewhere along the way is back. Utpal's smile! The one that could light my darkest hour in a jiffy. Sadly it had got lost for too long. The bullies and their allies had taken care of that!...
And a time to every purpose, under Heaven
Utpal maybe soon moving to a new school. If all goes well it could be in less than a month. The need for the move has been on the anvil for quite some time. It had to happen for more reasons than one. For the past 3 years or so, Utpal has been deeply disturbed and in...
I would like to believe
For the past nine days, India has been celebrating Durga Puja, the nine days when the Goddess is celebrated in all her divine forms. She is celebrated by one and all, including the men who rape, abuse and denigrate women each and every day. I wonder if they realise...
I am angry at God!
I’m not proud of it, but I cannot deny it: I’m angry at God!I wrote these words 4 days ago when I heard that Utpal's mom had reappeared. But then for some strange almost eerie reason, my fingers froze and I just could not add a single word. And though the anger still...
with the magic of making dreams come true
For the past months now I have been on a kind of sabbatical, one I did not really ask for and definitely did not want. Ranjan's cancer has altered my life in more ways than one, some for the better, some for the worst but all in the game I guess as life's journey is...
A child is God’s opinion that the world should go on
A child is God's opinion that the world should go on wrote Carl Sandburg. The highlight of my day is the few minutes we Skype with Agastya my grandson and the days we don't are not 'nice'! We have been Skyping since the day he was born when just seeing him sleeping in...
Medical Insurance…. who for?
Recently a staff member's parents fell ill. This staff member has been with me for many years and over these years she and her family have moved up the social ladder slowly but steadily and are now what one would call a lower middle class family. They still live in...
It’s your fault
Kalki Koechlin's video as gone viral! The purpose of this clip is a response to the jaded and sated explanation given after every rape: "Every sexual assault case in India inspires a string of stupid and hateful remarks against women. This is our response to those...
Soar confidently in her own sky, whatever that may be.
She was born on October 1st, 1981! From the instant I held her in my arms and looked at a puckered face, I knew she was special. It was visceral and instinctive. I did not know what life had in store for us, but I knew that she was a soul sent to this world to change...
How many buckets in my ‘list’?
Ranjan's cancer, let us call it by its name as I always feel that is the best way to put things in the right perspective, has had a bitter sweet side effect: time to make our bucket list(s). I must admit that I had often thought of bucket lists and even written about...
A matter of honour
There are many definitions to the word honour: high respect; great esteem; the quality of knowing and doing what is morally right and so on. The juxtaposition of the words honour and killing is an aberration as to my mind, there is no honour in killing...
Honestly.. I am aghast
Today one of the front page headline in a leading newspaper is: Rivals allege ‘dirty tricks’ as Delhi Gymkhana polls turn ugly. I am aghast and perturbed. In our country as vast as ours with manifold issues that need urgent solutions, the elections of a la-di-da...









